I lost the whole gist
of Michael's story after this comment.
"Wait. You said 'To hell with you!’ to the mechanic”?
"Wait. You said 'To hell with you!’ to the mechanic”?
"Yeah. Don't you think he
deserved it?" Michael seemed to
think I hadn't listened to all the details of how dishonest the mechanic had been, and
how the dealership was giving him the run-around.
I heard. But Michael letting someone have it was a hard thing to take in.
Michael enjoys confrontation in about the same way a fish enjoys a marathon through the desert.
It's not that
he doesn't have opinions. Believe me, he
does. It's not that he's not willing to
stand up for his beliefs. Believe me he
is.
It's more that
he is very good at focusing on the outcome of a situation. (Unlike me, who'll vent my feelings now, and
regret it later.) Michael tends to methodically work to sway the
other person to seeing things his way.
He's also, at
heart, a very peace-loving kind of guy.
He gives people the benefit of the doubt. He avoids taking things too personally, and he almost always keeps
his cool in tough situations.
In all the
years we've been together I've never really seen him be rude to anyone.
"This
guy must have really gotten you riled up for you to say something like that to him."
"Well, maybe not right to him."
"Like...you said it as you were
driving away?"
"Yeah."
Now it started making more sense.
"So...could
he, actually, hear you?"
"Well,
probably not."
"Because you were too far away."
"Yeah. And because the window was rolled up."
"Because you were too far away."
"Yeah. And because the window was rolled up."
I nearly fall
off my chair laughing.
"Oh, now
I'm getting the picture. You
told him off...from a distance."
"Yeah."
"That's awesome! You really gave him what for!"
"Yeah, I
did, didn't I?"
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Here's the one other time I know of where Michael actually showed his anger to a stranger:
He was on a
phone call with one of those "customer service" representatives. You know the ones who a) don't know you're the customer, and b) don't know they're supposed to be providing a service. The kind that
make you want to pull your hair out.
Michael explained his problem and asked that it be fixed. The guy on the phone kept telling Michael that it was his company's policy to be lame idiots. (I am paraphrasing.)
In spite of his best efforts, Michael was
unable to change the guy’s position, and finally gave up in frustration.
Immediately after hanging up, his phone buzzed with a text: We'd love your feedback! How was your experience?"
Michael texted back: "It sucks."
Michael texted back: "It sucks."
They texted: "I'm sorry you were not pleased, how could we improve our service?"
Michael responded
that their service would improve if they removed their heads from their posteriors,
and then suggested that they should try having intimate relations with themselves. (Again, I am paraphrasing.)
"Take
that!" Michael said.
"Wow. You just told off a robot."
"Yes I
did!" He looks pretty pleased with himself.
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Which goes to show you: even peace-loving fellows have their limits.
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Which goes to show you: even peace-loving fellows have their limits.
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