Tuesday, September 17, 2019

September 17, 2019 - 4 - "Man Bun"

     I flew with a young man with long hair he'd tied up into a top knot.  

     It suited him.  Made him look kind of edgy and cool.  

     Male flight attendants, traditionally, (and formerly by absolute company mandate), have tended to look incredibly conservative.  I loved that this guy was doing his own thing.  

     Another crewmember, a woman about my age, mentioned his 'man bun'.  

Me:  "Cool, huh?"   She sort of guffawed and looked at me like I was a nut.  


Her:  "You've got to be joking!"

Me:   "No."

Her:  "It's ridiculous!"

Me:   "I don't know.  There's always something new.  I read this book by John Hodgman where he tracked facial hair trends of men through the years; from handlebar mustaches to goatees to chopper sideburns.  It was pretty hilarious."  

Her:  (Icy silence designed to let me know I am stupid.)

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Me (to you today...since she wouldn't listen to me yesterday):     

      When  you think about it, there's a constant parade of new trends.  What's cool in one era looks weird in another.  I mean, our founding fathers wore wigs.  Sometimes really elaborate wigs with all kinds of swoops and curls and ringlets.  Then they'd pull it all back into a ponytail...and tie it with ribbon.   As if that wasn't enough, they'd powder the whole crazy coiffure to make it white.  

     How'd that become a thing?  (Don't answer this.  Seems like I read somewhere that they wore wigs because of lice issues or something equally disgusting that I'd really rather not think about.)
       
     So, anyway, over time people’s looks change and evolve.  I wondered about this chick's range of 'acceptable looks'?  What would she say if someone came on board our flight with a curled and powdered wig?  

     In an ironic (french?) twist she was sporting a blast-from-the-past-shag-meets-Farrah Fawcett-70's-tastic hairdo.  I was perfectly fine with whatever choices she made with her own appearance until she started acting ugly about someone else.  Then I had to think:  Uh..., I wouldn't be casting stones if I were you, sister.

   I guess the bigger point is our founding fathers were determining the future of democracy with those whacky wig-'dos.   

     ...I figure a person can manage to pass out pretzels with a bun.



"I don't know how people get so anti-something. Mind your own business, take care of your own affairs, and don't worry about other people so much".  

-Betty White

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